Don’t worry - I didn’t see yours as an attack at all - simply as stimulus for clarification. To wit: I whole-heartedly agree with you and would always be willing to reciprocate in kind. In fact, I just happen to be one who feels it is better to give than to receive. ;~)

~Reese! :~)

I deplore any kind of anal contact. It would not matter if it was someone touching my arse with a feather or trying to ram a red-hot poker up there.

I dislike it intensely.

Ya never know…

cheers!

We agree on a lot of things sexually but by the sounds of it we might have different politics!

You should lay off the David hume, Heggel, Satre, Neitzsche, Trotzsky and Marx. Those men were as confused as they were celebrated. Sorry, I made a mistake. I think Hume was a capitalist but he is just as confused!

Jes, hopefully we can have a chat outside the BBsite.

I could be twelve years old but I doubt I would have got in into Cambridge at such a young age. I am good; but not that good.

As for your ability to reason and apply logic to your arguments, jovial as they may be for me anyway, you seem not to have been able to keep up. So, even though I may act as a puerile pre-teen at least I am able to deliver an insult with the rational and mental agility that is befitting someone of my true age and profession. I read your reply and neither the syntax nor the statement made sense in two out of your four paragraphs-in relation to my comments. So, read my comments again and try harder next time. That’s a good boy. No rush!

50% out of 100% D+

You big woooooofta. Aaaaaaaahhhhh

By the way, I didn’t get a chance to look at Reese’s site for 2 days - is this yet further proof that I am a homosexual?

You don’t seem to be able to explain why I would look at the site at all if I was gay? For all the beautiful men with big tits that are on here?

You are tragic and pathetic and probably about 12 years old.

Good morning to you.

As per the anal; is the turn-off that men just want to get there?…or do you just not enjoy any sensations in that area?

Because I strongly believe that the turn-off for some, not all, women is that most men try to “hit it” like they’re hammering through concrete. Where as I, succinctly put, am not prone to overt aggression or domination (in the literal sense, not the fetish sense); so I have a much slower approach. But I know that some women claim to need a dominating, forceful man.

I am my wife’s second husband, and we spent last night discussing differences in our techniques. Before me, she wanted nothing to do with anal. She loves it, now. But even after 9+ years of our marriage, she’s still embarrassed to talk about it, due to her upbringing (that damned church, again ).

As per the bisexuality; I don’t mean to sound as if I’m attacking Reese. It seems I assumed a different qualification for bi-sexuality than he/you do. I’m sorry for that.

I’ve been involved numerous conversations with some of my homosexual male friends in the past. At the time, not many men would admit to bi-sexuality, even at college. We had left it with no great benchmarks, except to the understanding that a man should at least responde in kind to another man in order to adequately qualify the difference between bi-sexuality, and taking advantage of an opportunity to get-off.

I just never bothered to question that, since I never felt the desire to explore such options, myself.

Thank you for your words. And, it seems to me, that we tend to agree on many things. And I don’t take offense at any of your states of being. I just believe it to be difficult to recognize and respect political borders over the internet. I also have a hard time respecting politics (and organized religion) in general. But, I shouldn’t make that your problem. So I, too, am sorry.

Looking back, I was probably a little too unclear as to which comments, and who’s, I was addressing. I’ll try to “rectify” that in the future, as well.

As a breast admirer the best position for anyone to get a good view of the breasts would be via normal entry into the vagina. Those who admire an arse more than a pair of breasts would probably prefer anal sex. Since not everyone is a breast admirer (infact it’s a minority fetish, though not quite as small a minority as Technophillia, Furridom, Vore, or Balloon fetishing put together), and the majority of fetishes don’t neccessarily require a person to be seen from the front, anal can be more sellable.

A kink is a kink is a kink though. If you get it, great, if you don’t, go enjoy something else. As someone said, Anal is somewhat an excersise in dominance and submission, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be a dominant man. Infact it’s entirely possible for the man to become subservant during anal sex. It all depends on what people enjoy. Just because it’s conventional for anal sex to be rough, and full of the woman being at the mercy of the man (as is the common portrayal in porn) doesn’t mean it has to be.

Thing is though, many of the people perhaps won’t have looked into anal porn as it’s not there thing to begin with. The stereotype isn’t always the case. You only have to look at some of the variety found in the conventional blogs on this site to see how varied the big breast fetish’s range goes. I assure you, many of the anal fans won’t have heard of some of the stuff we explore into routinely, because it’s just not there thing.

Please remember, just because it doesn’t appeal to you, doesn’t mean everyone hates it. Reese himself said he wasn’t a fan of anal, yet here he is on a public blog discussing anal, for the pleasure of those who do enjoy it.

For the record, there’s much more to gay sex than just bending over and taking it in the rear. Infact I’ve spoken to one (rather conservative) couple, who only ever give each other hand jobs, and rub against each other like a man and a woman would for missionary.

Personally, I too have no desire for anal. In my own experiences, it’s a bit too tight a fit for me to find it comfortable. Having said that, I quite enjoy having my anus explored by a willing woman, and am quite happy to provide if the woman desires it. It’s not my cup of tea, but then there would be things which I imagine aren’t always what the lady desires.

Sexuality is not set in stone. No-one is 100% hetero there whole lives. You don’t have to admit it, but I’ll bet everyone reading this has had at least one moment where they’ve looked upon another man and admired them. Sexuality moves about from time to time. It doesn’t swing quite so dramatically in some to crave penis one minute, and vagina the next, but most people do have some homosexuality in them, even if society encourages them to bury it to conform to standards.

But enough waffle, No-one on the internet listens to rational, merely flamebait.

Glad to hear that you’re a northerner, I love them and have notheing against them. Why, because I am the only southerner born to my family- much to their horror. Mother wasn’t taken back up the M1 quick enough, while pregnant, to avoid me acquiring the Thames estuary drol. So I can’t really put the boot in to score points againt my cousins Up’noooorth as I would be attacking my own roots- Yorkshire actually! When I was younger I used to get up 3 hours before I went to bed! And when it got cold in doors I went outside to fall asleep.

As for Southern beer yes we all know its tosh, it always has been, possibly why I don’t drink any alcohol. As for my education, yes, I am a product of public school and Oxbridge but I do not see how that should go against me. The fact that I indulge some urges shows just how like everybody else I am.

I am not going to try and prove I am not gay but I’d love men better if they had G cup, and above, natural breasts with bodies like Eden More and other types of bodies that are provided by our very own host Reese, on this, our very own blog.

And Carlos, you know as well as I do that if there are 100 red bloodied young men in a room and they were surveyed as to their sexual habits or desired sexual habits, anal sex would be a hit for about 75% at least. I do not deny that many of the stats we get are usually from our own experiences and friends but, put it this way, so far even Vix has said that most hetrosexual males she knows consider anal sex the HOLY GRAIL. Now, I understand that these things can be considered circumstantial as a result of anecdote but Father Christmas doesn’t even exist but he gets around all these childrens bedrooms, roughly around christmas time, and the police never seem to catch him- the police are rubbish. (HE SHOULD BE ON THE SEXUAL OFFENDERS REGISTER) DIRTY OLD MAN. So do you see my point.

As for feeling the pain of rectal love within the public school system, well, shit happens and you deal with it. I never used to take, I always give. I loved it. It builds character and prepares ones self for the corporate world. Maybe thats where I get the love of anal now. Most people were sooooo selfish always receiving never giving- I blame secular society and MTV. It is easier to do it on women because they are easier to hold down, with young boys they fight too much and it can get really messy. Only Joking Reese……..

Anyway, I think that ends this blog. Carlos you’re a good sport! You big woooftaa!!!!! hahahahahaha

That said, I’m soooo not a fan of the anal. I am definitely willing to admit my hypocrisy…

Yes i am from up north and I’m not a southern ponce such as yourself. roast dinners, didn’t realise there was such as thing in the sarf…. And as for your beer, well it leaves a lot to be desired.

Where are you gettting these dodgy statistics from??? the guiness book of porn….

Seems like you like anal to get the tighter fit you require, possibly due to equipment malfunction, might be the southern water system. For me I get what I need from the good old fashioned tried and tested ways.

You cannot pull the gay card on me because I’m secure and I’m sure you are too, well you say you are, keep on saying it and one day it might come true.

I have tried anal, but for me I don’t really feel the need for it, you knock yourself out and keep getting those stats up….

Carlos, awaiting you well thought through witty reply (coutesy of your public school education, does it bring back painful memories??)

By the way, I am unapologetic for being English, male, hetrosexual and from London. But, to many that would conjure up ideas of a nationalist thug from Britain. That could not be more further from the truth- in my case anyway. Not sure what it is like over there but over here being a male, hetrosexual Brit and proud of all the above is actually a problem. I do not look down on anyone, anything or any views. As long as someone does not seek to hurt anyone else or cause them harm in any way then you can have whatever views you like and carry out any practice you like. Live and let live I say. Share your view do not impose it.

I may not agree with your view and may even challenge them because intellectually they may be week but I will not try to belittle you because of them or shame you into not having them- no matter how covert that attempt may be. I would hope that if your views and opinions are not widely accepted, depending on the reason, we could discuss them to the point of saturation then see if either they still hold water or whether one should revisit their opinion with the view of altering them.

By the sounds of it I am most liberal and accepting person here possibly besides you. Anyway onwards and upwards!