l want to call him or here mail

please please………………………

respect

Simply because masturbation would be an asexual pursuit, meaning *not* sexual.

“For me, anything involving physical contact with another individual’s genitals for the express premeditated purpose of arousal constitutes a sex act. For Vix, on the other hand, it’s not sex unless there’s coitus involved and anything short of penis penetrating vagina falls short of sex by definition.”

So Reese, maybe this will settle the arguement between you and the Mrs. once and for all. Just simply differentiating between “having sex” and doing a “sex act”. Or does that basically leave you where you started? LOL, I don’t know. It’s late but that is food for thought albeit maybe a small snack.

While many may not consider sex to be anything but pure penetration, that doesn’t necessarily mean they want there significant others performing sexual acts on other people. For some even so much as looking at another is entirely unjustifiable, and unforgiveable, while others will go so far as to allow there partners to have sex with other people. What your proposing is not what is and what isn’t defined as sex, but rather what is and what isn’t defined as cheating on a partner.

The “true definition” of sex is probably coitus. “Sex acts” include both the real deal and periphery items.

On the other hand, it may be that the male sees all form of sexual contact as just foreplay, whereas the woman would see that after having sucked him off, then they have shared an intimate moment of sex.

Again it comes back to what Josh said. If a man or woman thinks that anything other than vaginal penetration is not contained in the definition of sex, then they may see themselves as not cheater on their spouse/lover. Whereas the spouse/lover may see it as sex and a form of cheating.

There is no true definition we can give that would satisfy everyone. It is up to each of us to have our own opinion of what sex is and to share that so that others may broaden there definition, or at least understand ours.

On a side note, why is it called preforming when one gives oral sex to their partner? I never understood that term.

You’ve captured my thoughts on the matter completely when you said “some of us might answer much more casually than what qualifies as sex if we are talking about what our wife did with another man behind our back”. I really should have driven the point home a little further with examples like that, as it could have had a dramatic impact upon on the results.

~Reese! :~)

Sex for a lesbian is defined as vaginal stimulation from the mouth of her partner, the repeated contact of genitals in a thrusting motion when done by two women or the use of a strap on/dildo/double ended dildo. Note that this definition also counts for the woman in a straight couple, so long as the man also cums.

Sex for a gay man is identical for that of a male in a straight couple. It is also sex for a male if he receives cum inside him (or would do if there was no protection used) in the ways outlined above.

In summary, direct penetration whereby a penis is inserted into an orifice, or the continued contact of a pair of genitals where insertion is impossible due to a lack of a penis on all parties, is sex. Everything else isn’t, but can be considered foreplay, even if it results in a climax.